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You've recorded a few of your wishes so far. Everything saves on its own as you go — you can always add more later.
What you'd like
These are the things families most often wish they'd known. Answer the ones that feel right; leave the rest.
Burial or cremation
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Burial
Cremation
Let my family decide
Not sure yet
You can change this any time. There's no wrong answer.
Where
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Swansea Crematorium
With ashes scattered at Three Cliffs Bay
Funeral director
Not yet recorded
If you don't have a preference, your family can choose at the time. That's perfectly fine.
The service itself
The little touches that make a service feel like you.
Music
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“The Lark Ascending” — Vaughan Williams
“Jerusalem” — for everyone to sing together
Readings or poems
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Flowers or donations
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Flowers welcome
Donations instead of flowers
Family flowers only
No preference
Donations to the British Heart Foundation
Change
The feeling of the day
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Anything else
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A prepaid plan, if you have one
If you've already paid for a funeral plan, recording it here means your family won't have to go looking.
Funeral plan
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DIG·NITY
Dignity prepaid funeral plan
Plan no. DIG–448120 · paid in full · covers cremation & service
We only keep a record of your plan. MyFamilyInherits doesn’t sell, recommend or arrange funeral plans, and isn’t authorised by the Financial Conduct Authority to do so. In the UK, pre-paid funeral plans are regulated by the FCA — if you’re thinking of buying one, go to the provider directly and check they’re authorised on the FCA Register.
A rough figure is plenty. It helps your family and your executors know what you had in mind.
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A quiet, helpful note. Reasonable funeral costs are taken off the value of the estate before inheritance tax is worked out. Recording the expected cost here means your executors can claim it later — so the money your family inherits isn't taxed on what was spent saying goodbye.
computed against INHERIT · E&W Tax · reviewed: Stable
People to let know
The people you'd want told, and who you'd trust to make the arrangements. They'll only ever see what they need to.
MR
Margaret Richards
Wife · first to be told · will arrange the day
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Sarah Richards
Daughter · helping Margaret
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Rev. David Wells
Family minister · to lead the service
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Our promise. You will never be charged automatically. Recording your wishes here is free, and always will be. We don’t sell funeral plans or funeral services — we keep your wishes safe, in one place, for the people who’ll need them.
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A few gentle, optional questions
These are entirely optional, and many people skip them. If you'd rather not think about this today, that's completely fine — you can always come back.
Yes — I'm on the register
Yes — but not registered yet
No
I'd rather not say
Happy to help
No
I'd rather not say
A small thing that makes a big difference when the time comes.
That's plenty for today if you'd like to stop. Everything you've written is saved and safe. There's no deadline and nothing left hanging.